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Consummate Love

Equal & Intimate Partnership


Pairing Today is a relationship consultancy committed to creating Permanent Partnerships built on Responsible Freedom--what can be called "Consummate or Great Loves".


I would help you realise that like a work of art, Great Loves don't just happen.  They take an ongoing effort of self-awareness and courage.


Courage is the key to unlock the prison cell of solitary confinement you have allowed your life to be sentenced to by Selfish Genes Sex and its Status Quo.


Anais Nin takes the stitches out of your wound without any anesthesics


"There came a time when the risk to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. Love never dies a natural death. It dies because we don't know how to replenish its source. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of illness and wounds; it dies of weariness, of witherings, of tarnishings. I postpone death by living, by suffering, by error, by risking, by giving, by loving. Life shrinks or expands according to one's courage. Living never wore one out so much as the effort not to live."


Eva Cassidy's song Time is a Healer has this line of truth: "Love heals the wound it makes."


Learn the Lesson of Loss that is Love.


Learn the lesson that Barbara Streisand's song sings so poignantly and beautifully.




The lyrics in the Barbara Steisand song People says it best:


"With one person, one very special person
A feeling deep in your soul
Says you were half now you're whole

No more hunger and thirst
But first be a person who needs people
People, people who need people
Are the luckiest people in the world"

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