From Bondage to Bond

Introduction

This site is primarily about the education of the sexes so as to enable mutually rewarding relationships that benefit both persons involved and add peace and prosperity to the planet. This is not a "dating site" and if I introduce singles to potential partners this is a sideline service.

Humanity now has the scientific knowledge through Biology and Evolutionary Psychology to understand and achieve a Permanent Peace in the War between the Sexes.

"Homo sapiens, the first truly free species, is about to decommission natural selection, the force that made us.... Soon we must look deep within ourselves and decide what we wish to become." E.O. Wilson

Love Will Find a Way Music & lyrics Rick Braun
So if freedom,

So if freedom is the answer,
Then I'll have to wish you well.
Maybe one day you'll turn around.
Say that love will find a way.
And I believe in that today.
So if I have to let you go, I will do it.
As far as I can see
You still belong right here with me.
Love will find a way.

Sex at Dawn by Christopher Ryan describes the Genetic Heritage of the Inner Civil War between the Warlike Chimpanzee and the Peaceful Bonobo inside each of us. Ryan convincingly argues that the Selfish Gene Sex Drive need not lead to the Chimpanzee Bondage of Love of Power that is the root cause of our social conflict and destruction—from wars to domestic violence. Rather this Emotional Sexual Motor can be directed towards Peace and Prosperity for All as the Bonobos Bond of the Power of Love.

I am convinced we can become capable of substituting the Bonds of Responsible Freedom for the Bondage of Irresponsible Power. We can choose to create and maintain Equal in Power Interpersonal Relationships based on Consciously Chosen Care.

Join me in Pairing Today as I show you that Way.

Selfish Gene Sex

Peaceful Bonobo

Violent Chimpanzee